One more thing Matt. I have written two posts and many tweets as a response to abuse done on your behalf. They were not banter. Any man who bonds with his friends over harming women and causing distress is dangerous. Ex gambling addicts who bond with their friends over intimidating and abusing women, who have never lived in a world where behaviour has consequences, are dangerous. Your behaviour is not normal, it is why you surround yourself with abusive bullies, so it feels normal.