In our world women head households, have always worked, and are the backbone of communities. Not just an afterthought on a panel. The misogyny that defines media and politics cultures is an anachronism. The projection of that onto us using social policy systems is an abuse. And the media feminists who sell this really need to enter the century we all live in. To be honest, they need to enter the 20th century before they enter the 21st. And their media cultures cannot drag us back to the century they inhabit and will be destroyed in the attempt.